Hai

If I told you the problem ever faced by my parents, it is just to show you how I would do my best to avoid the same problem. I share it with you in order that we can be better. Not for you to insult me, comparing yourself better that my parent when we are having a problem, and use it to fight against me.

It hurts when you use that problem. It hurts when you praised that you are better than my father, and I was a fool to ever tell you about it.